It's true. Sometimes sympathy doesn't feel very simple. We put a lot of thought into it and talk ourselves out of it with things like "I'm not sure what to say," "I don't want to bother them," or "I'm sure too many other people are overwhelming them with calls and cards and visits." The truth is, though, grief can be really lonely and people don't want to be forgotten. They want to know people are thinking about them. That life hasn't just moved on for everyone around them while they are left alone with this impossible, painful feeling of emptiness. Helping someone feel less of that loneliness and emptiness really is simple. Just do the thing. Send the card, make the call, send the text. Don't overthink it. At Symply Sympathy, we want to help people send comfort and connection as easily as possible. And for a longer period of time.

If you feel led to. If you've ever experienced grief after a loss, you know it continues long after the funeral, memorial service, etc. In the first year after a loss, most people stop receiving messages of sympathy and support pretty quickly after the event, and thus feel forgotten in their grief. Sending multiple cards for a few months in a row reminds them someone is still thinking of them. And, quite frankly, sending something to someone makes us feel better, too! Why do we send cards, casseroles, flowers at all? Because we feel awful if we don't. We feel like we let the person down. We feel like we failed at our jobs as a friend, family member, neighbor. So, instead of sending something just once, keep sending for awhile longer. It's comforting and connecting for them and it's relieving and fulfilling for you. 

Yes. Every card is black and white and has one image on it for a specific purpose: Black and white images are naturally emotive and evoke meaning from the viewer. Black and white images like the ones we use allow the recipient to put whatever feelings and meaning they need to onto the image, giving them a stronger sense of connection and emotional response. Messages inside are written with blue ink.

Yes! We recognize that death is not the only kind of loss that needs sympathy! Our messages can be applied for other types of grief/loss/sympathy needs your recipient has: breakup/divorce, illness, job loss, "other". Reach out if you need more help knowing what to write and we'll be sure to help you craft the perfect message.

With store bought cards that already have the sympathy message printed, the only personal part is your signature. Our cards are handwritten, so they look and feel more personal. They are also written by mental health experts, so the message is crafted with connection and understanding in mind.

Yes and no. Why do people pick out greeting cards at the store instead of just writing a letter? Because we need help to know what to say. Like the cards in the store, at Symply Sympathy we take care of that "knowing what to say" part. The difference is, those cards from the store are printed and our cards are handwritten, giving them a more personal touch. Also, our cards are made of premium quality heavy card stock, an extra touch that truly makes the cards feel like they are crafted with love.

That's up to you! If you didn't know the recipient really well, but you still want to send something that will bring them comfort and make them feel less alone, just sending one card is absolutely fine! One is better than none. Sending it maybe a month after the loss would be ideal because around two weeks is when most cards, flowers, etc. stop coming. Your card will be a welcome surprise and will make them feel like they haven't been forgotten. It is such an easy way to stay connected to the person and let them know you're still thinking about them.

We leave that up to you! At checkout, you tell us what day you want us to start, and we will send the card that day.

We'd love to hear from you! If you have more questions, simply reach out to us at: support@sendsymply.com.

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